(1) Trying hanging out with women, not girls, for a change.
(2) And forget "dating" in the hopelessly broken American sense.
And finally:
(3) it's interesting that basically all of the analogies he draws are to frameworks, and not to programing, or more specifically hacking. Yes, women are different (in some ways very different) from men. But rather than thinking of the "object" of your desire as some horribly convoluted framework or buggy consumer app, a better analogy might be to a deep programming problem, or some area of mathematics you just need to wrap your head around a little bit to understand (on its own terms, not yours).
But once you do, everything will make a lot more sense. And trust me, you'll be getting laid a lot more often, too.
(1) Trying hanging out with women, not girls, for a change.
(2) And forget "dating" in the hopelessly broken American sense.
And finally:
(3) it's interesting that basically all of the analogies he draws are to frameworks, and not to programing, or more specifically hacking. Yes, women are different (in some ways very different) from men. But rather than thinking of the "object" of your desire as some horribly convoluted framework or buggy consumer app, a better analogy might be to a deep programming problem, or some area of mathematics you just need to wrap your head around a little bit to understand (on its own terms, not yours).
But once you do, everything will make a lot more sense. And trust me, you'll be getting laid a lot more often, too.