Yeah, the more I think about it the more futile this effort starts to look. The industry is investing tons of resources into building and maintaining an open, highly secure PKI ecosystem which allows any server on the public internet to cryptographically prove its identity, and Google wants to try to prevent anyone who's not a web browser from relying on that ecosystem? Seems impossible. The incentives are far too strong.
Google is hoping that after this change other TLS clients will go off and build their own PKI entirely separate from the web PKI, but in reality that would take way too much redundant effort when the web PKI already does 99% of what they want. What will actually happen is clients that want to use web certs for client authentication will just start ignoring the value of the extendedKeyUsage extension. The OP says Prosody already does. I don't see how that's an improvement to the status quo.
Google is hoping that after this change other TLS clients will go off and build their own PKI entirely separate from the web PKI, but in reality that would take way too much redundant effort when the web PKI already does 99% of what they want. What will actually happen is clients that want to use web certs for client authentication will just start ignoring the value of the extendedKeyUsage extension. The OP says Prosody already does. I don't see how that's an improvement to the status quo.