Me now thinks only winning move is to suck it up while finding a new gig. For H1B prisoners like this OP, well, it's tough to win a rigged game.
The core problem, IMHO, is not having a baseline model for what good management looks like.
In my 30s, I finally stumbled into a high mutual trust situation. It was heaven. We got so much done, had so much fun.
Once you get a taste of trust, it's hard to suspend disbelief, kinda ruins you for future relationships.
After earning my PhD in failure, I'm still no wiser, have no prescriptive advice.
The only "skill" I got was tuning my spidey sense.
One is burned after experiencing what work could be like. But what to do - I have so no idea.
Me now thinks only winning move is to suck it up while finding a new gig. For H1B prisoners like this OP, well, it's tough to win a rigged game.
The core problem, IMHO, is not having a baseline model for what good management looks like.
In my 30s, I finally stumbled into a high mutual trust situation. It was heaven. We got so much done, had so much fun.
Once you get a taste of trust, it's hard to suspend disbelief, kinda ruins you for future relationships.
After earning my PhD in failure, I'm still no wiser, have no prescriptive advice.
The only "skill" I got was tuning my spidey sense.